April 2012
44 posts
So I really like this one guy, but so does my best friend. And I think he likes her and there's this dance coming up and she wants him to ask her (but so do I. haha) and I think he might... If he ends up asking her and she says yes, do I pretend to be happy for them, or let my friend know that I'm mad/upset? And then what should I do?
I would pretend to be happy because things might be awkward between you two if you do. You’re friend might feel really bad in torn about whether or not she wants to go with him. And I know you don’t want to look selfish so best thing to do is pretend to be happy. Sorry you were in such a situation but everything will work out love :)
I was dating this guy for a while and I ended up giving my virginity to him, don't get me wrong I don't regret it and it was what I wanted but like a month after we started fighting and we eventually broke up. Its been 6 months since we split and I attempted to move one but i couldnt. It also hurts because we are still really good friends but Its like there is a barrier and I cant tell him how I feel....Help What do I do? Do I forget him or Tell him?
Basically ask him where you both stand. Ask him if he feels the same barrier that you do…I know it sucks but what’s the worst that could happen? Also if you do express yourself you might end up break down that barrier that you do have. There is no way you can move on with out closure. Keep me updated love :)
I think I lost my best friend. We got into this sort of fight but she said she wasnt mad at me anymore, but we still didn't really talk anymore. Now, it's like we've completely drifted apart and I know that if I dont do anything about it, she wont because i'm the one who has to start the convo and apologize, and sometimes I let her win because I dont want to lose her. Anyway, it has been kind of hard on me and my life isnt all that great either. Help?
Have a day out with your friend. Maybe out to a quick lunch and have each other express to each other how you feel. Never come at them in a attacking way and always here them out. Its better to express yourself than have everything bottled up, that might be why things are awkward between the two of you now. Hoe everything works out love :)
Losing the guy you love and trying to get over him for the past 8 months (Almost done) and basically losing your best friend. Who do you turn to? </3
Im pretty sure you a few friends ti express yourself to. Also express yourself in positive ways like music about your break-up look where adele ended up lol. And also you have people Like me who’s always there to listen and give advice don’t worry you’ll get through it :)
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i asked for advice a while back asking if ishould tell the guy i like that i like him.& long story short he said hes liked me too but he never told me cause he also tried to move on cuz i was going out with another guy.&me all excited i told my friend and she told me that hes been telling her he likes her.&she asked him and he told her "ya itold u iliked you but didnt mean ican trust u"but now idk whato do!he hasnt texted me or anything but he knows i know ../:
What it comes to guys like that just leave him alone because now he’s playing with your feelings and no girl should have there feelings messed with. Good thing your friend told you and his reason is not good and it doesn’t make sense either…he’s trying to play his options out. You and your friend might not be the only two he told…but if you still want to give him a chance keep your guards up…don’t be so quick to fall for anything he tells you based on this situation love until proven otherwise love :)
I already asked him for his number... And i try making conversations with him i even asked him to go with me to a party friday but he couldn't go. I'm running out of ideas like, i always start with the conversations and then we stop talking because he writes "LOL" or "XD" i mean what am i supposed to reply to that lol!
Okay now you just have to leave him alone to see if he notices the change in things. What I do is if I text first I’m expecting him to text first the next time around, vice versa. He might just be used to you doing that all the time he kind of expects it. If you both are truly supposed to have more than what it is now you both will find you’re way back. And also never ask him or tell him something that will have a yes or no answer to it or one word texts that way he’ll be more obligated to hold convo.
I really like this guy... We're always messing around with each other and stuff he's adorable, but we barely talk. Like, we do but just for a short time of period while passing periods at school. I want to get more closer to him but i'm shy, any advices for that? Please nd thank you.
Since you both are cool there’s no problem in asking him for his number. Yeah I know “isn’t the guy supposed ask the girl? ” yeah but waiting for that sometimes can be a little too late. Sum up the courage to do so you’ll be glad that you did, love :)
So i know i don't know you, but i need some advice.. My ex broke up with me on valentines day. (Yeah alot of people be telling me he's a jerk for doing that..But he really isn't). Well its been 2 months already and he moved on really fast and he thinks i've moved on too which i haven't, and i'm just trying my best you know but it's just really hard to do. The thing is i still wanna be friends with him or atleast try to but i got a feeling it's just awkward what should i do? :\
Yeah they can’t judge him based on one thing…The only way things will be awkward is if you allow it to be an explain that to him as well. Just keep that in mind all will be okay :) keep me updated love :D
I have a question.. or actually i need help. So i was in a relationship for like a year and 7 or 6 months and we brokeup because she didn't treat me so good and we always fight every single day..2 months later i went out with another girl and now i'm missing my ex. . we both go to the same school and so does my gf. So every time i see my ex i start thinking bout the what we had .. We promised eachother that we will stay bestfriends but everytime we talk my feelings for gain.. and i dnt want that
Unfortunately you don’t completely lose feelings for someone. Its always that one little ounce that’s there when you always see them or think about them. They don’t go away that fast as much as you try to. The thing is you now have a girlfriend and your attention should be focused on her now and your ex should understand. Never try to fight feelings you once or still might kinda have for your ex because they tend to come back stronger almost. Focus more on your girlfriend and hopefully things will get better :)
Well, I did ask her if something was up, and she said that she's just been busy with school and exhausted and whatnot. But I know that's not really the case. I've sent her multiple messages asking what was up and asking her how she felt, and letting her know how I felt. Just basically trying to get anything out of her, but nothing.
Okay well then like I said before she doesn’t realize what she has she so use to you being there whether or not she is putting in the same effort as you are. This time really stop or ease up on what you’re doing just to show everything she would miss if you weren’t there. I mean you are a good guy and you’re dealing with a girl with guard that was built up due to other past experiences with guys, I know its hard just keep being patient :)
It's that "perfect guy" as you like to call me lol. Well, once again, we were on the right track. Talking like every thing is fine, but she just started ignoring me again...
Hey! Well now you need to ask her why the sudden change of things. Sadly you’re dealing with someone who is afraid of a good thing or someone treating her right, I know the whole thing is very frustrating. Tell her how you feel and explain to her there is nothing to be afraid of. She is slowly getting there but just keep assuring her that you are the guy that will treat her right. Thanks for keeping me updated and please update me on more :D
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